Wednesday, June 17, 2009

Braden!!


Well I thought I would take some time a write about my boys...mostly it will just be the rambling of a very proud mom!

Braden is four years old and boy is he a handful! He is constantly challenging me and my husband! He is a very smart and imangintive boy. He is constanly asking WHY! The love of his life right now is THOMAS THE TRAIN...we have everything Thomas and are always searching for new things! He spends most of his day playing with is die cast trains and never wants to leave them behind when we go somewhere. The stories he comes up with while playing amaze me...maybe he will become a writer? The are imangivitive and new all the time..and it amazes me that they are always in context of what the trains do in "real life."

It is funny to go places with him..yesterday while my husband and I were taking the kids for a walk he said..."Uhoh daddy it's Gordans Hill..we must chug faster and faster if we are going to make it up!" so funny! He also stated that the trail was "bumpy and junky" in spots. Where does this kid think up this stuff?

He has always been such a happy boy! But last year kind of threw a curve ball at him...I think that he would have been more than happy to be an ONLY child but mom and dad had other thoughts! Not only did we bring 1 new sibling into his life but he got a 2 for 1 deal when his twin brothers were born. This was a hard time of the year for him last year because I was put on restrictions and couldn't play with him like I used to...he did not understand at all. July and August were even harder because about the week after our birthdays (July 12 and 13) I was hospilized in Sioux Falls and he had to be passed from family member to family member. Thank god we have such a wonderful family...I dont know what we would have done without them! He has had some hard times adjusting to being a big brother but for the most part he is getting the hang of it....he definatily does not want his babies to cry!

He also started pre-preschool in the fall. Boy is he SMART! One of his teachers said to me the other day, "leave it to Braden to have the vocabulary of an 11 year old!" He does have some problems with attention though...he only wants to do what he wants to do and only when he wants to do it! (sounds a little like ME!) Because of this Ryan and I along with his WONDERFUL teachers have decided that he should redo pre-preschool next year and hopefully that will help with the problem. His birthday is in July like mine so I have had reservations about sending him to kindergarden when he is five anyway..

As always he is a light of my life and as he says, "Mommy I want to always be your baby!" which he will be!

Monday, June 15, 2009

New!!

Well I have finally started my blog...

I got the idea to start it so our friends and family can catch up on our busy lives with the three boys...but I am already this has become my place for me...instead of for the kids.

The blogging world seems interesting to me...a place where I can get my thoughts out without having to speak them (which I am very bad at!!) I would much rather type something out and read and re-read it....

As of right now life is pretty good. There are some bumps along the way but nothing that can't either be dealt with or ignored...(which I am very good at!)

It is very hard to deal with and ignore the problems with my family though. Last year my grandmother passed away and it has riped my extended family apart. I thought after some time that we would be able to move on and get on with our lives...but it is not happening. It is very frustrating to me to have this happening.

For years my grandma was not a big part of my life..my parents divorced when I was young and I lived with my mom and step-dad. I did not see my dad or his family very much even though they lived in the neighboring town. When my oldest son was born I was able to reconnect with my Aunt Nikay (who I was very close to during childhood) and my Grandma. They both helped me deal with difficult times and supported me very much.

It is one of my greatest wishes that my family could just get along!